Posted 27 Jul 2016
I want to be a porn star but I'm worried about my friends and family finding out. I would love for there to be a way for me to do porn anonymously. How do porn stars avoid their family and friends from finding out about their career in porn, or do they not care?
-Cock Blocked
I'm not going to try and read their minds and tell you what they feel. But I can say you're harboring more assumptions than I can count, the biggest being that every porn star has family and friends. Considering porn stars are hatched from pods and can't very well make friends while in the throes of constant dramatic orgasm, those personal risk and conflicts are minimal to non-existent.
Posted 24 Jul 2016
Ever since I’ve been a teenager I’ve been attracted to older guys. I love silver daddies and men with experience and that sophisticated look. I can’t think how to meet my ideal guy because we tend to hang out in the bars and clubs where the crowd is younger. How can I meet Mr. Right?
-Younger for Older
Sexually compatibility is absolutely important so being drawn to a look is totally fine. There may be an assumption that you would be drawn to people closer to your age, and older men may share that assumption, meaning most may see it a total waste of time to go to those clubs with younger crowds. Also because in some of those places, staff and patrons may give older guys a hard time, creating an unwelcome environment.
Posted 22 Jul 2016
What can I say about Men at Midnight 1993 Male Strippers Mark & Max Beefcake Twins that hasn't already been said? It was Winston Churchill himself who stated "Men at Midnight 1993 Male Strippers Mark & Max Beefcake Twins is a a watershed moment in our collective history, bringing us to a shared vision of a peaceful, unified future."
While I know we all have practically memorized these quotes in grade school, I'll bring us all back with a couple more.
Posted 21 Jul 2016
And the guys in them. Because otherwise it would be like a clothing exhibit at a fashion museum. And what good is that if you can't try the stuff on and jack off? Like you can at Neiman Marcus.
I am not confused by the changing fashions. I am confused by the inexplicable use of songs from Grease. That music would much better pair with scenes of natural disasters. As soon as I think of John Travolta, my mind goes right to floods, forest fires, landslides, plastic surgery, toupees, beards (the hide you're gay kind), and just general negativity. Sorry not sorry, John.
Posted 17 Jul 2016
My boyfriend has a well-paid job, but it’s safe to say I am the breadwinner. We’ve been together for around a year now but I don’t like the fact he relies on me to pay way more than half of everything such as rent, bills and shopping. How can we get the balance right?
-Wishing for 50/50
How big is his dick? Because you need to do some math here. You want a 50/50 situation but first off all, that should rightly be a proportional 50/50. Each of you spending the same percent out of your earnings doesn't mean you both would spend the same amount of money as you earn more.
And even then, there may be things he just can't afford, so you need to either agree to fully pay for certain things, or live within his means more and don't make it all about money. So lay off the shopping.
Posted 15 Jul 2016
This rower is winning a medal for, I'm guessing, rowing. Though he really should win for bulging.
To be fair, this isn't really an erection. It's just super tight shorts covering a dick that's pointing up. And his lack of self-consciousness if further proof he's not erect, unless he's a really good actor.
But those who are both successful athletes and actors are not super common. Except, of course, the amazing Burt Reynolds. He was really good at football, and the sport of making ex-wife Loni Anderson's life a living hell.
Posted 14 Jul 2016
For a new generation, I feel it's my responsibility to reintroduce Australian sprinter Matt Shirvington's severely bouncing, severely arousing (and potentially severely chafed) bulge.
I'd ask you to loop it, but this video does that for you. There's another version thats been on YouTube for 10 years but I think the original may be even prior to YouTube. Thus the resolution. RealPlayer anyone?
Posted 10 Jul 2016
I’m scared to leave the house. There’s a group of kids that hang around outside my apartment block, and they somehow know I am gay. I live alone and it bugs me. They shout taunts and offensive names at me such as “faggot” and “queer”, which I’m used to brushing off, but when it’s every day it becomes wearing. What can I do?
-Out of the Closet and of Ideas
Your first step is to focus on maintaining a feeling of helplessness. As long as you can keep up that illusion, there's no need for any other step. You're done! And as a bonus, stop leaving the house. And even when you're at home, lay off the tap dancing.
You're welcome.
Posted 7 Jul 2016
No need to follow all the standard steps to win a gold medal, such as picking a sport, training, qualifying for the Olympics and, um, actually coming in first. You can skip right to the gold medal part.
Because your gold medal is this rather perfectly built guy in a gold singlet. Wouldn't you enjoy wearing him around your neck?
Posted 3 Jul 2016
I think my foot fetish is getting out of control. I’ve started preferring to suck my boyfriends toes rather than fuck. I just jerk off instead. I know he gets bored of it. Please help me find the fun in fucking again!
-Stymied Shrimper
You want me to help you find the fun in something that you don't find fun. Why? Because you're supposed to find fun in it because a lot of other people do, including your boyfriend? Well a lot of people find a lot of different sex acts fun, but not all would be fun for you, or for your boyfriend either. Because we're sexual individuals.
Being gay and all that does not make us part of a sexual monolith. You have some highly self-judgmental wording here, from "getting out of control" to "just jerk off".
Posted 1 Jul 2016
A new cafe is opening in Geneva, Switzerland. How does this particular coffee shop set itself apart from the hundreds of others surrounding it? You can order a blowjob with your espresso!
Sex work is legal and regulated in Switzerland. This will allow patrons to order their coffee and select a sex worker from an iPad who then performs fellatio on him. The cost of the beverage and blowjob, which includes "five to ten minutes" of oral pleasure is 60 Swiss francs (or around $62 USD).
Posted 1 Jul 2016
On the surface it's a new gayish-ish music video by Years & Years. And that's where it stays, despite its artistic pretensions. Has the director seen Querelle? Actually, have you? Brad Davis as a stylized sailor/hustler. It's worth a view.
And I guess this video is too, but I thought I was watching an extended encounter between a guy just trying to park his damn car while a hustler (who should not have removed his awesome pink jacket) gets in the way with annoying semi-modern dance moves. While some song Justin Timberlake's sixth cousin goes on in the background.
Posted 30 Jun 2016
In this social experiment to see what happens when a shiny, pretty muscular guy (carrying a coffee cup most of the time) walks nonchalantly through Manhattan.
Or more specifically, certain parts of Manhattan, not including Wall Street, the Meat Packing District, Dhinatown, or Bergdorf Goodman. Because everyone knows what would happen if he walked into ritzy department store Bergdorf Goodman.
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Image Credit: MEN.com, Posted 27 Jun 2016
This new kid is hot! Charlie Pattinson is MEN.com's latest exclusive model, and he's debuting with Alex Mecum, a hairy muscle fan favourite at the studio. Charlie has fair hair, a cute face, and a very hot body. In fact, from certain angles, Charlie's biceps look incredibly huge. Charlie tops Alex in his debut scene, but it's unclear yet whether Charlie is exclusively top, or whether he'll be returning to bottom.
Posted 26 Jun 2016
I’m 21 years old and I’m gay. My cock has a red spot right on the end which has been there since I was born. It’s nothing medical, just a mark, but how do I convince guys it's not some kind of STI when we get down to business? I’m worried people will back away when they see it.
-Frankenpenis
How dare you not have a picture perfect penis, worthy of Michelangelo. Sucking.
It can be a comforting distraction to pick up on a supposed physical flaw of yours rather than focus on personal challenges regarding connecting sexually and otherwise with guys. Because guys may back away when they see your personality. Your sense of humor that is incompatible with their own. Your career aspirations. Or your left big toe.