I’m a 76-year-old White man who likes eating a younger guy’s ass, and who adores a chocolate cake. Last month, I could not believe my luck when I met Toby, a 48-year-old mixed brown guy who craves older white men, and who lusts to be rimmed. The contact was made through the dating site Silver Daddies. The name Toby echoes the chocolate bar Toblerone. And that rang a bell because I had tried to meet a Toronto Black man years ago with that similar name on Silver Daddies, but had been politely rejected. Now, a new yummy chocolate bar was in the offering!
Created more than twenty years ago, in July 2002 to be exact, Silver Daddies is a platform for gay or bisexual men who want a personal connection. It’s an opportunity for wonderful self-realization experiences, be it sexual, social, emotional or all three together. Silver Daddies currently has 115,215 active profiles from around the world. Many men have gone from a chat to a one-night stand, from dating a friend with benefits to a long-term relationship. The Silver Daddies site indicates that 3,086 men have viewed my profile since I’ve joined about ten years ago.
Information given in one’s profile varies a lot, some guy’s indicating only their age, height, weight, place of residence and sexual status (top, bottom, versatile, oral receiving or giving). Just about everyone mentions the age range of the man he wants to meet for a sex partner, a date, a friend or a relationship. In my case, you find out that Paul François is 76, lives in Toronto, Canada, measures 6’3” (191 cm), and weighs 21l lbs (96 kg), that I’m into oral giving, that I prefer men aged from 40 to 60, and that I seek sex partners, dates or a relationship.
Most men include a profile pic, but not necessarily a face pic; it’s often a cock or ass close-up. The profile text is optional but highly recommended if you want to attract Mr. Right. This is the info that I enjoy reading the most because it’s an indication of a possible match. My profile text reads as follows: Je parle le français et l’anglais. I speak French and English. I’m a writer and a book critic. I wrote 52 books in French and over 220 gay porn stories in English for the web site Gay Demon. I adore cuddling, kissing, caressing, sniffing a jockstrap, and eating a man’s ass. I will give you my email address if you’re interested to exchange pics and fantasies.
The photos on Toby’s page are simply out of this world. You can see his nice thick cut rod and his yummy tight balls. You can admire his awesome butt, and worship his divine chocolate rosebud begging to be licked, kissed and sucked. One pic shows a cock ring, another focuses on a plug in his ass hole. Toby has only been with a few 60+ year-old local men, yet adores those in their 70s. Contacts with younger than 60 are only made on his own initiation. He is an exhibitionist who gets a lot of fun by performing on cam; he invites interested men to message him when he is in the chat room.
That’s exactly where I met Toby. He caressed his rod with his right hand and shoved the plug in his shit hole with the left one, moaning with intense pleasure. I could sense the physical energy irradiating from his God-given assets. A live performance was a must. Toby agreed to come over at my place, in a seniors’ residence, saying that he would be playing the role of a man doing a survey and that I should react aggressively to this scenario.
It’s a Sunday morning, around 7 a.m., and I tell him that he deserves to be spanked for disturbing honest senior citizens. Toby immediately comes him, pulls down his shorts, revealing an awesome black rod that I can not resist worshipping on my knees. We are in the middle of the Paris Olympic Games, and his thick chocolate mushroom is worth a gold medal. Toby loves to show off his manly assets; I adore caressing, kissing, licking and eating them. His first words are engraved in my memory: “I am so pleased that I turn you on so quickly and sooooo much!” I obviously sense that his hole tingles for me. I invite my trick to sit on my face and to let me tongue-twist my way inside his dark brown ass hole. The moans of pleasure encourage me to include some spanking and biting. Toby likes it, but resists kissing on the lips.
When he agreed to come over, I wrote his name and the time in my calendar book (I have no smartphone, let alone a cellular phone). When he left, I added five stars in the margin. A clear sign that I want to see him again. One feature of the Silver Daddies dating site is that you can mark your “Favorite profiles”. When you go online and your favorite guy is also there, you get a note to that effect at the top right of your screen. I indicated Toby as one of my favorite profiles, and he indicated Paul François as one of his favorite profiles. When can thus track each other more quickly.
As mentioned earlier, 3,086 men have viewed my profile. I regularly surf on Silver Daddies, mainly to admire peachy butts and jockstrap bulges, also to see if some guy from Toronto is interested in my profile. Toby is often online and immediately invites me to the chat room for a cam performance, not really my cup of tea in principle, but seeing him jerk off excites me, makes me want to hold him in my arms and kiss him passionately. He still resists this more emotional approach, preferring to masturbate for a Silver Daddy, for Sir Paul as he calls me. It’s during his second visit that I discover the underside of Toby: he is the Toblerone guy that I cruised years ago, unsuccessfully. He tells me that I was pressuring him too much at the time, which is true in fact, which is part of my Capricorn side. Toby also adds that he was then seeing some other daddy, two in fact.
During this second visit, I invite Toby to wear my red jockstrap. I’m the one who gets more excited. I later learn that he would prefer to wear some feminine clothing in order to look like a faggy sissy boy with a big throbbing brown cock. I immediately tell him that I like his virile look, that I want to love a 200% man, not the fem version of a dude. Moreover, the smell of his armpits intoxicates me like never before. Isn’t this a sign of full-blown male extasy? I think if he farted in my face, it would smell roses, the aroma of a rosebud!
Toby cams and chats again. Before coming over for the third time, he says that he wants me to wait for him in my bed where he will not only cuddle against me…: “I have decided to plunge in and kiss you tomorrow.” Yes, you read it well. Toby is ready to move one step further. He says that he is a very tantric and sensual fag boy. I have to check the meaning of “tantric”. In Sanskrit, the word tantra means woven together. People who practice Buddhist and Hindu meditation may also practice tantric sex as a way to “weave” the physical with the spiritual. This practice brings together spirituality and sexuality, emphasizing the importance of intimacy during a sexual experience. See, I told you I’d come around.”
And to confirm how serious he is, Toby adds that he is ready to date.
“If we date, I tell him, we have to be monogamous.”
“Sure, no worries there! We keep sex safer.”
During the cam, Toby pops the words that make him a proud “fag boy”: bumhole, ass pussy, shithole tingle, anussy, rosebud hole, homoness… I tell him that it’s the beauty of homoerotic poetry.
I don’t know if I will be able to sleep tonight. I can’t wait to appreciate my fag boy’s poetic charm tomorrow morning.