Public Exposure: Very Personal Ad Photos
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Image Credit: Public BF Videos, Posted 6 Sep 2018
On the relationship-search sites and apps (that aren't purely about sex), I would encourage the powers that be to allow honest photos about who someone really is. There are always new ventures about "verified profiles" and the like. So why not go all out and let someone, who also happens to be looking for love (and to give love) show their exhibitionist side?
It would be helpful to know, say on OK Cupid, that someone is not only a non-smoking vegan, but also a nude bicyclist. Or not only a glass sculptor by day and tournament level Scrabble player by night but also a train bubble butt flasher. Actually, that's totally wrong. Let's say Scrabble player by day. Those folks don't go out much at night I'm guessing. Though they're trying to with personal ads.
Are all the horny Scrabble players done thinking I need to F-U-C-K-O-F-F with my nerd stereotype? Well, I'm a nerd too because I know one or two of the Fs in that have to be the blank.
But the sex sites and apps are the home of all that exhibitionist honesty and the relationship sites and apps are the home of all that everyday personality honesty. So I like when folks can be themselves everywhere. Because what's the point of sexual liberation if it's not about freedom and visibility.
Though ask me again when someone I don't think is cute is rubbing their crotch near me on public transportation. I don't know the real world equivalent of swipe left. I think it involves something horrible like reading or looking out a window.
Now just because someone is naked in public doesn't mean they are flirting with everyone and open to anything. So if you're going to say hi, make some normal small talk, same as you would if they were clothed. Though "Chilly weather we're having" has a whole different context.
